A Word of Wisdom and Exhortation for September 7, 2017

A Word of Wisdom and Exhortation for September 7, 2017
M.D. Wright
Audio: Here
I woke up with more motivation today than I have in MONTHS. I have felt this many times, but it was more in my 20s when I was truly doing what I should have been doing and working toward my personal objectives. I lost sight of these things due to “life” and have recently been working my way back to the place where I need to be spiritually; particularly with the help from a dear friend who cared enough to outlast my massive outbursts at times and help me see some things that I was unaware of (or lost sight of) within myself. The proverbial light bulb went off this morning, and I had that “aha!” moment that I used to get when these messages were to be delivered for the benefit of others, as was my ministry — again, when I was “doing what I was supposed to be doing” — which means NOT being cooped up in the four walls of a “church edifice” but actually exemplifying the spiritual gifts that I have been blessed with in order to uplift and exhort others; in other words, living the faith that I believe, instead of just preaching it without aligning actions, or WORSE, turning completely away from the faith altogether.
Don’t ask me to tell you something on demand. I am not a conjurer or fortune-teller or any of those things. I’m not even a prophet. I just speak what is given to me, as untainted as I can articulate it in words and parables, such that the reader/listener can understand.
I only got three hours of sleep overnight and don’t feel “no ways tired” like James Cleveland.
My head is spinning because as soon as I hit the floor, my spirit was awake like it was when things were flowing in every direction for me.
I had four missed calls by 9 am when I woke up, and my phone has been ringing all day, while bombarded with emails pertaining to opportunities, one of which I am considering taking next week.
I will finally be moving out of here by the end of this month, but not going far (thank God), and time to get another car, as well.
I have had a deep impression in my spirit for weeks now, and I tried to figure out where it applied to me, but only very little of it was for me. It was for OTHERS TO HEAR, so I would be doing a disservice by not sharing it:
— You cannot go back and retrieve the time you spent in a job that failed, or the bad decision/regrets you may have regarding your choice of career or which school you went to, how much money you spent going there. The time for you to make the changes necessary is now. There sometimes appear to be obstacles in your path that are not truly obstacles beyond those in your mind. Re-center your focus on what your ultimate purpose and plan in life truly consists of, and do not block God’s blessings by flapping your gums about things to the wrong people.
— Tell your loved ones — relatives, longtime friends, spouse, significant other, love interest — that you love them. Tell them how you truly feel about them. The unspoken can be just as damaging and serve as an impediment for you and the person you should be telling these things, as it can be an impediment by babbling to the wrong people. You never know who you will inspire by simply expressing your truest emotions and seeing how that can motivate someone to finally do something that they have put off working on for months or even years.
— Revel in others’ success. Seek out those who have things going well in their lives at the moment. Instead of being bitter about not having things go the way you’d hope right now, relish their success and be their cheerleader and supporter. You reap what you sow. The difference is either reaping the fruit of bitterness, envy and jealousy, or reaping an abundance because you were truly and unconditionally/altruistically happy for someone else.
— Let go of the past altogether. If that business failed, so be it. Learn from what you did wrong and apply it going forward. But move on. If that relationship did not work out, remember why it did not work out and do not return to it. Do not dwell on the things that caused the relationship to fail (even if you are chiefly at fault — if you’re honest with yourself), by now, you should have taken the time to sort out matters within yourself and healed to the point where it is time to turn the corner. Reopening that Pandora’s Box will only make it 100 times tougher to close the next time, and with even more pain and agony than it produced before, leading to the broken dreams of a failed business, a lost job, or a broken relationship/friendship/marriage.
— Focus on what you have right now and be grateful for every “little” thing, rather than lusting over what (or who) you DON’T have. Gratitude is the best way to have “opportunity meet preparation.” That goes for any situation you can think of.
— Don’t let fear apprehend you. Sometimes the best opportunities coming before you in the near future are those that require you to vacate your “normal” or “usual way of doing things” — those methods sometimes serving as the reason why you have been unable to move forward into things that you thought would have happened already. We are our own worst enemies most of the time, and it takes someone with wisdom, discernment and the ability to articulate things about ourselves TO US in order to see these blind spots that we overlook on a daily basis.
— Don’t quit. When the temptation is the greatest to fold and cut and run, that is when you should be standing right in the face of the storm and enduring the pain. Most people by nature run as soon as discomfort or something that reminds them of a painful memory in the past comes along. Again, the one’s own worst enemy angle. The breakthrough is quite often right around the corner from what appears to be a major, catastrophic storm directly in front of us. Have you ever driven through a severe thunderstorm? From a distance, the clouds are extremely dark and lightning and heavy rain abound, but as you approach the storm, it doesn’t look as bad as it did from a distance, and once you’ve cleared the dark cloud, you realize a) it wasn’t as bad as you thought after all, and b)some of the things you stressed about when approaching the storm weren’t scary after all; in fact, the resolve necessary to keep the car within the lanes and remaining aware of your surroundings are the very things that you need to be equipped to get to where YOU ARE GOING IN THE FUTURE. For some, this could be the very NEAR future. Don’t turn around and out-race the storm in the other direction. You’re still going to have to pass through it, and it’s going to take you twice as long to get to the other side now.
That is for someone, but don’t shoot the messenger.
— Don’t let pride get in the way of your progress. If you are supposed to be partnering with someone or a group of people to work on a project that you KNOW you have a vision to accomplish, work the phones, emails, texts, etc. and begin making it happen. No one wants to be around someone in their 50s and 60s killing their ears with the “I shoulda done this, that and the third” when the only reason they did not get it done was pride, ego and an unwillingness to work together with others. Hogging the spotlight so that you can claim that you “pulled yourself up by the bootstraps with no one’s help” means nothing at all. You will have your reward in full. The greater reward is working with those who you are supposed to work with to achieve things that are beyond your own comprehension and finite vision.
This goes for me, along with some people who I know it applies to. I will not say names.
— Let go of the bitterness about the situation you may have found yourself in over the past year or so. If an ex cheated on you, let it go. Someone who actually appreciates your virtue and who you are AS you are is out there, but you won’t be able to “see” or appreciate them in return if you are hung up on what an ex did to you before.
That is for several people, I know for sure. Again, don’t shoot the messenger. Bristle at the message if you want, but you’d rather be angry now than to be 100 times more bitter later when you realized you shortchanged your own self by hanging onto the past and blowing right past the right person for you due to fear of getting rejected, hurt and betrayed again, or whatever the cause of the breakup.
— WIth how things have shaken out during the first eight months of the Trump regime, we have realized that the way we “used to do” things has to change. No longer can we depend on jobs and a singular source of income as the means to achieve the things we dream (for those of us who are dreamers and visionaries). You have to be willing to think outside of the box. I have said for many years, “Money is a reward for solving a problem that society did not know it had.” Chasing money isn’t the way. With that mindset, once you have the money, your focus isn’t on doing things greater than your own selfish and lustful desire. Choosing to focus on a void that needs to be filled for the benefit of society at large — whether it is your neighborhood, your city, nationally or globally, what have you — will produce wealth far beyond that which you could have fathomed AND open doors for others to benefit, which is really most of our individual purpose in life.
— Be malleable. Try new things. Try new things with new people.
— Turn off the TV once in a while. Too many people live in a fantasy world and it distorts their REAL LIFE encounters and the way they perceive “success.” Reality TV, if it is your cup of tea, isn’t a killer on its own merit. The damage is done when you — consciously or otherwise — begin patterning your lives after the frivolities that are indulged in by the characters on those shows; many of whom are acting purely from a script.
What TV additionally does (outside of a few exceptions which actually depict art imitating real life) is provide a warped idea about what relationships and marriage should look like — often by people who have no earthly idea what a successful relationship or marriage entails — while causing people to form blind spots to their own personal shortcomings. The result? A ton of people who are unaccountable to others with their own words and actions, and the same people harshly critical about even the most minor character flaw in someone else. Everything becomes a blame-fest, emotions are damaged, gender wars with words ensue, and a trail of bitterness and broken relationships result.
Date with a purpose. Don’t just get with someone because you are lonely. Don’t just do so because of societal or familial pressure. Likewise, don’t cut yourself off from what can be a beautiful thing because you are so focused on your career and the desire for total autonomy, that you fail to realize that the right person for you can — and again, if they are truly the right one for you — WILL take you to higher heights than you can by yourself. Whatever you do, remaining purposely single, or dating, courting, or just allowing things to develop with someone who you deem to be special, do it with a purpose.
— Avoid toxic relationships. If it means cutting off some family members, or moving away from certain “friends”, or continuing to entertain a situationship that you know deep down isn’t going anywhere, and will only end with unnecessary heartache — with at least one better option available all along while you wallow in the mud with Mr. or Ms. Good-for-Nothing — and you’re only doing yourself the greatest disservice in the long run.
This is definitely for several people.
— Don’t let fear of failure (or fear of success for that matter) be the reason you don’t act on something you feel passionate about. Once again, the unsaid and undone is a soul-crusher for many when they get older. They know they can only blame themselves, and it can eat away at you for the rest of your life in some instances. Choose to learn from the wisdom of your elders, some of whom made these mistakes due to a lack of information, and avoid making the same mistakes yourself.
The money you spend on empty pursuits and things of no appreciating value can be used to do the very things that you have a passion to do, and procrastinate or allow fear to hold you hostage.
— Always remember (not dwell) the pains you felt when you were in your darkest hour. Those trials were preparation for you to not only achieve what you have been purposed to do, but to SUSTAIN you in it. You do not want to be like a lottery winner with no financial counsel; one who gets $100 million and blows through it in five years. Without the trials of learning financial strategies, this is the result for many; whether they are lottery winners or professional athletes, celebrities or what have you. Your trails are to prepare AND sustain you once you’ve achieved. You can remember what it was like to go without and to be met with obstacles everywhere you’ve turned, and use that as motivation to not do the things that would land you back in the situation from whence you came.
Additionally, your trials aren’t always just for you. Do not begrudge (we all have to vent when we feel overwhelmed by anger, anxiety and grief, but be swift to recenter your focus on the bigger picture, lest you drive yourself insane) your struggles. They are often your testimony for OTHER PEOPLE’S benefit.
Think on these things. If they apply to you, just remember I am merely a conduit. I’ve sat on some of these things because I didn’t feel like I was in the best condition to share them without being tainted with what I have gone through since I moved to Maryland, but I had an abundance of things that I was given to speak to others, and here it is for you.
Take heed and if things apply to you, govern yourself accordingly. I don’t get these messages all that often, but when I do, they are applicable to the audience which I have at the given time.
I will place this in audio format so that some can follow better and not get lost in the massive amount of text.
Now on to football and whatever else you have on the docket this evening.

2017 NFL Week 1 Powre Rankings

2017 NFL Week 1 Powre Rankings
M.D. Wright

Now that preseason has concluded and most pivotal roster spots have all but been sewn up, we can now roll out the inaugural Powre Rankings for 2017. We may or may not do “What We Know” weekly this season; it depends purely on demand and time constraints, but as always, these rankings are based upon where teams are today, not how they finished last year (unless the team is largely intact and unchanged from the 2016 season).

1. Seattle Seahawks.
Seattle recently pulled off a smart trade by handing off Jermaine Kearse — who went kicking and screaming, as he did not want to leave Seattle — and a 2nd Round pick (swapping 7th Round picks) to the Jets, and acquiring DE Sheldon Richardson. Richardson bolsters what is already a stout defensive line with Uncle Cliff Avril, Michael Bennett, Jarran Reed and rotational defensive end Frank Clark. Richardson will definitely be a 3-tech in some packages and a nose in some of the exotic looks Seattle can devise. With Bobby Wagner and KJ Wright anchoring the linebackers and the notorious Legion of Boom, Seattle arguably possesses the best defense in the NFL.

Their offensive line has a question mark (not MARKS) at left tackle only. When George Fant went down in the preseason at left tackle, the scramble ensued to fill the role. We won’t know what to expect from whoever will be on Russell Wilson’s blind side until Week 1.

2. Atlanta Falcons.
The Falcons are what they are offensively. That has not changed. No real detractions on that side of the ball. Their defense will be even better with numerous young players notching important experience last season. And they have gotten dramatically better with Dontari Poe at defensive tackle, and exceptional drafting of Takk McKinley and others. They will be a formidable force, though we don’t think they will win the NFC South.

3. New York Football Giants.
The Giants defense is a known quantity. It got even deeper on the defensive line, and BJ Goodson is the best athlete with the best instincts they have had at the position in over 10 years. The secondary rivals that of Seattle’s. If the free safety position can remain healthy (for once this decade), it will be extremely difficult to consistently move the ball against this defense all season; just as it was last season.

The Giants offense had its major woes in 2016. Left tackle Ereck Flowers has improved (though he is still not where he needs to be in order for the passing game to get to where Ben McAdoo would like), Bobby Hart was dominant in pass protection in the preseason. Whenever John Jerry was in the lineup, the interior of the line was piss poor (including Justin Pugh and Weston Richburg, who often get passes for their substandard play from some fans and writers). When substitutions came in for Jerry, both run blocking and pass pro were markedly better.

The Giants need to keep Shane Smith at fullback. He has been very solid in the hole and springing runners. With all the other additions the Giants have made to their “skill” positions, it is highly unlikely that the team will struggle offensively as they did in 2016.

4. Oakland Raiders.
The Raiders shuffled their offensive line and allowed Latavius Murray to walk in free agency. However, they coaxed Marshawn Lynch out of retirement and now any concerns about the running game are erased. Derek Carr is back to 100% health. The questions surround Mario Edwards, Jr. and his health, and what can the team do to replace “lost cause” Aldon Smith, who has thrown away potentially generational talent. The Raiders are our pick to come out of the AFC, and barring injury, they very well should be. They would have done so in 2016 if Carr had not been injured late in the regular season.

5. New England Patriots.
We know about all of the superlatives when discussing Bill Belichick and his staff’s ability to shapeshift and adjust, but the loss of Julian Edelman cannot be quantified by statistics. There is a certain feel between Edelman and QB Tom Brady that cannot be quickly replicated by whoever the Patriots throw into the slot. Plus the team has injuries at key positions like CB, as Cyrus Jones blew out his knee in the preseason finale — a position where they team does not have much depth behind Stephon Gilmore and Malcolm Butler. They’ll cakewalk through the AFC East, as usual, as it is arguably worse than it has been since the early 1990s, but they’re not coming out of the AFC this year.

6. Green Bay Packers.
The Packers need to show that they have improved defensively. They’ve made moves to that end, but we won’t find out about their defense until the regular season dictates them playing 60 minutes, unlike preseason. We have zero concerns about what should be a rather explosive offense.

7. Tampa Bay Buccaneers.
Tampa is not ranked higher at this point, because we know that they have some questions in their secondary. These are not major questions, however. They are loaded up front, especially in acquiring run-stuffing defensive tackle Chris Baker to play next to Gerald McCoy, and their linebacking corps might be the most athletic in the league INCLUDING Seattle, in Kwon Alexander, Lavonte David, and rookie Kendall Beckwith.

Tampa signed Desean Jackson and drafted OJ Howard out of Alabama to give burgeoning superstar Jameis Winston even more weapons to go along with favorite targets Mike Evans and Cameron Brate. They have also upgraded their offensive line, a line that killed their playoff hopes in December last season, as it fell apart with horrid efforts following the loss of Demar Dotson at right tackle. They will win the NFC South.

8. Pittsburgh Steelers.
Like many of the teams in the top 10 in these rankings, the Steelers’ offense is not of much concern. They’ll get whatever they want quite often. Getting Martavis Bryant back from his year-long suspension is a welcomed sight. The defense appears to be better with Bud Dupree healthy and the drafting of TJ Watt. You still have to wonder about their secondary, even after the acquisition of Joe Haden, which really does not move the needle.

9. Dallas Cowboys.
Dallas has shuffled their offensive line due to the retirement of Doug Free, moving La’el Collins to right tackle and Chaz Green to left guard. This is not going to work out as well as the line they featured in 2016. Whenever Ezekiel Elliott’s suspension kicks in (and it will be all six games, despite his, the NFLPA’s and his counsel’s antics), Dak Prescott will be exposed. Dallas has no real secondary to speak of, and half their front seven is suspended and/or out for season due to injury before Week 1 arrives. They could arguably be ranked in the teens or twenties right now.

10. Kansas City Chiefs.
There is a ceiling for a team with regards to Alex Smith’s ability to lead them. This must be known by now.

11. Minnesota Vikings.
The Vikes have all the defense in the world, but their offensive line looked no better in preseason than it did in its atrocious display in 2016.

12. Tennessee Titans.
We really like what the Titans are building here. Don’t act surprised when they show it by winning the AFC South.

13. Baltimore Ravens.
The Ravens surprisingly haven’t signed a WR at the tail end of his career as is their typical wont to do. Their defense will be its typically stout unit, though their secondary is dealing with injuries, but what do they even have offensively? Yuck. Their defense bolsters this ranking, that much is for sure.

14. Miami Dolphins.
Miami signed Jay Cutler because of his (ONE YEAR) “familiarity” with Adam Gase’s system. You do not master someone’s system in one year, with a bunch of players you haven’t played with. Speaking of “played,” Miami played themselves by cutting off their nose to spite their face and not signing Colin Kaepernick when Ryan Tannehill was lost for the season. They will pay for it by missing out on the playoffs in excruciating fashion in Week 17.

15. Denver Broncos.
Is Trevor Siemian better than he was last year? It doesn’t appear to be the case. Denver’s willing to cut TJ Ward (which they still may do on the 53-man deadline). Who knows what this team really is.

16. New Orleans Saints.
The Saints have runners, but Drew Brees will still be back there passing 40 times a game. They got a Super Bowl win they should not have in 2009, and have not figured out that without all-world defensive players, their offensive approach does not mesh and hence all the shootouts the Saints face week in and week out. Adrian Peterson at this point in his career will not move the needle much unless the Saints really stick with the running game.

17. Houston Texans.
The Texans have defense for days, but who is their QB? Tom Savage knows the offense, but how far can they take them? Deshaun Watson has all the moxie in the world, but he is NFL-raw.

18. Philadelphia Eagles.
Another season, and Eagles fans are ridiculously delusional about their team. They have potential to be good for sure, but you cannot count on a bunch of young players at key positions to play complete games every week. There will be growing pains. This team may finish the team in strong fashion, however.

19. Carolina Panthers.
A mediocre outfit here.

20. Detroit Lions.
What is the Lions’ identity? They haven’t been able to run the football in years, their passing game is the only consistent thing they’ve had the past few years. They have major question marks at each level on defense.

21. Cincinnati Bengals.
The Bengals will eventually be good towards the midseason and latter portion of the season, but right now they don’t look that good.

22. Arizona Cardinals.
Wait-and-see mode with this team. They will eventually challenge Seattle with a scare for the division, but there just feels like something is missing with this team.

23. Indianapolis Colts.
The Colts stink. And they’re playing games with the fans knowing full well Andrew Luck isn’t anywhere near ready to play football.

24. Washington Redskins.
The Redskins have a lot of questions on defense. We know about Kirk Cousins’ situation and the signing of Terrelle Pryor to a prove-it deal on his way to big money next offseason, but outside of that, what do they have? Yes, Josh Doctson is finally healthy, and Jamison Crowder has some things in which he excels, but what running game do the Redskins possess? If they have one, they did a great job in slipping it in through the back door during preseason, because it was nowhere to be found during August.

25. Los Angeles Chargers.
If a tree falls in a forest, and no one hears it, does it actually make a sound? That is a perfect axiom to describe the Chargers’ presence in Los Angeles versus San Diego.

26. Los Angeles Rams.

27. Jacksonville Jaguars.
This team wastes more talent on both sides of the ball than any team in the league. They literally have playmakers all over the field. Last year, the defensive talent was misused by a system not fit for their collective abilities. The offense has players, but Blake Bortles’ inadequacies stifle any potential for success of the offense; while reverberating throughout the team as a whole, as the defense ends up on the field for long stretches every week, losing effectiveness.

28. Cleveland Browns.
The Browns will be tough defensively, if not dirty, which they have shown to be in preseason. Who knows what to make of their offense? DeShone Kizer got the nod as the Browns’ starting QB, and he has some talent on the outside. Did the Browns do enough to augment their offensive line play? We’ll see. They have major question marks in their secondary on defense, as well.

29. Buffalo Bills.
The Bills are in pure tank mode, but they still have some talent

30. Chicago Bears.
The Bears looked like fools giving Mike Glennon all that money, only to play themselves in a trade with San Francisco, only to turn around and draft a QB with just as many college starts as the aforementioned QB has had in the NFL. Talk about mismanagement of assets. Who even know what the Bears plan consist of, or if they even have one at all. They are practically looking to hypnotize WR Kevin White into believing he can actually play at the NFL level. That is where the Bears are right now.

31. San Francisco 49ers.
This is a wait-and-see situation. They were horrid from a talent standpoint last year; while Colin Kaepernick still managed respectable numbers while passing to a bunch of #3 WRs, no healthy running backs, and all behind a beat-up offensive line, across from one of the franchise’s worst seasons on the defensive side of the ball). There has naturally been a major overhaul of personnel with new GM John Lynch and new head coach Kyle Shanahan. The 49ers could be markedly better in 2017, but have to wait and see over the first couple of months of the season to truly know of the ability with this made-over team.

32. New York Jets.
The Jets should fold.

Todd Bowles deserves hazard pay for having to deal with this toxic waste which was set up for him to fail and lose his job after the season (watch the Jets bring in a new coach, suddenly want to spend in free agency and the new coach gets all the credit in 2018; mark these words).

OFFICIAL 2017 NFL Division-by-Division Predictions

OFFICIAL 2017 NFL Division-by-Division Predictions
M.D. Wright

Now that we have concluded the Week 3 preseason games — and most projected starters are not playing in the final week of preseason — it is now safe to make the OFFICIAL (throw out the predictions made earlier in the month, which were used solely to pacify those who were salivating over any type of football whatsoever) — division-by-division standings predictions. This is the week when we normally roll out these prognostications, and full objectivity is in play here.

AFC East
New England                               11-5
Miami                                             9-7
Buffalo                                           5-11
NY Jets                                           2-14

AFC North
Pittsburgh                                     11-5
Cincinnati                                     10-6
Baltimore                                       9-7
Cleveland                                       6-10

AFC South
Tennessee                                     10-6
Houston                                          9-7
Jacksonville                                   7-9
Indianapolis                                 6-10

AFC West
Oakland                                        12-4
Kansas City                                  11-5
LA Chargers                                   8-8
Denver                                            8-8

NFC East

NY Giants                                      12-4
Philadelphia                                 10-6
Dallas                                               9-7
Washington                                    7-9

NFC North
Green Bay                                     12-4
Minnesota                                     10-6
Detroit                                           10-6
Chicago                                           7-9

NFC South
Tampa Bay                                    11-5
Atlanta                                           11-5
New Orleans                                 10-6
Carolina                                           9-7

NFC West
Seattle                                            12-4
Arizona                                          10-6
San Francisco                                 8-8
LA Rams                                          7-9

On #BeingMaryJane, S4E15…

On #BeingMaryJane, S4E15…
M.D. Wright


Saw some more discussion on last night’s “Being Mary Jane” episode, some interesting points were made. Beyond the fact that the show displays some real-life encounters and experiences that many of us have had (or are going through, in some cases), the way the characters interact is closely reflective to “real life.”

That said, that episode seemed to have hit a bit too close to home for some ha.

You’ll never get me to condone the things men have done with regards to disrespecting the woman they’re with; either physical or verbal abuse, cheating, lying, deception, etc. I’m just not going to do it. I’m not cut from that type of cloth, so I don’t ever entertain the table-turning gender-based back and forth nonsense.

However, the scene between Mary Jane’s parents is very real. I’ve seen that type of thing go down before, with people in their 50s and 60s, just like these characters.

But even with Mary Jane, Justin expressed how he felt towards her, then made himself vulnerable and transparent by giving her access to his personal information (not including what she rummaged through behind his back SMH), his phone and tablet password and the whole nine.

As soon as she offers hers, she immediately tries to go back through those devices to erase all the “Trifling Hoe” behavior that was all over her devices. Nude pics, shady emails between the plethora of dudes she has been with, then changes the password so that Justin couldn’t see anything in her devices while she feverishly attempted to delete them first.

Worse yet, when he knows she is hiding something — which is the very thing they discussed they WOULDN’T DO — she lies directly to his face as to why the password she gave him didn’t work. He knew, and simply asked her to see how she would respond.

This is all-too-frequent nowadays. It’s why truthful and honest (I don’t use the term “good”, because I can be a bona fide asshole quite often, as is my nature, and I don’t apologize for it, either; but I DO have integrity, and I don’t lie, deceive or cheat) have trust issues.

Even though Mary Jane has cut off all her paramours and old boyfriends, she still kept images and e-conversations she had with them. Maybe she hadn’t thought to delete them, but the moment when she needed to be honest, she resorted to lying instead. But then again, women want men to be these things — sincere, transparent, expressing how they feel about them, etc. etc. etc. — and don’t reciprocate. You can’t wonder why more guys don’t do it.

It would be one thing if Mary Jane was still messing with other dudes, she seemed sincere that she wanted to be with Justin and fully, instead of all the wavering she has always done (though only once she found out how much money he was worth — TYPICAL). You had your chance to come clean and be honest and you possibly blew it with this man because of it, as you know he has had issues with such things in past relationships, as he disclosed in a moment of vulnerability. Once a man spots a woman and makes her as a predator, that door can close immediately. If you are still messing with other dudes, admit it. Don’t let him find out (and guys like Justin, depicted in that show know a lot more than they let on — i.e. guys like me and a few of my friends) later that you were carrying on with other guys all along after he’s shown to be fully committed to you and forsook other women in the process. It’s something you don’t come back from, if you are the woman in his life.

I don’t know how many women watched that episode last night and had that chord struck between these two separate interactions (Mary Jane and Justin, and Mary Jane’s parents and her mother’s old “flame” who came back into the picture)?

Bottom line, don’t lie; particularly when you have a man who adores you to no end and is transparent and faithful to you. That situation with Mary Jane’s parents was a JOLT for everyone watching, though. Should serve as a warning for those who think they’re being slick while sneaking around and sliding into others’ beds thinking the other won’t realize what’s going on. No one’s THAT slick.

Bold, Off-the-Cuff Early 2017 Season Predictions

Bold, Off-the-Cuff Early 2017 Season Predictions
M.D. Wright

It is August 1, which means training camps are now in full swing and we have the first preseason game (Hall of Fame Game; Thursday, August 3, 2017 — Arizona vs. Dallas) on the horizon. I normally don’t even begin talking about football seriously until Week 2 or 3 of the preseason, and don’t roll out predictions until after the preseason schedule is completed and the attrition that often leads to season-ending injuries has run its course just before Week 1 of the regular season.

I’m going to throw a bone to you people who rush spring and summer by, and don’t watch NHL playoffs, don’t like or watch baseball and spend every day from the conclusion of the previous season’s Super Bowl rushing Week 1 of the next season to arrive. Consider it a one-time, make-good offer. I’m going back to my old ways next year.

As for now, we will do division by division predictions, statistical leader predictions and AFC/NFC Championship predictions, as well.

AFC East
New England                    12-4
Miami                                 10-6
Buffalo                                  9-7
NY Jets                                2-14

AFC North
Pittsburgh                          12-4
Cleveland                             9-7
Cincinnati                            9-7
Baltimore                             8-8

AFC South
Tennessee                          10-6
Jacksonville                       10-6
Houston                               9-7
Indianapolis                       8-8

AFC West
Oakland                             12-4
Kansas City                       11-5
Denver                                9-7
LA Chargers                      6-10

NFC East
NY Giants                           12-4
Washington                       10-6
Philadelphia                       9-7
Dallas                                   8-8

NFC North
Minnesota                           11-5
Green Bay                           10-6
Detroit                                 10-6
Chicago                                5-11

NFC South
Tampa Bay                          11-5
Atlanta                                 10-6
Carolina                                8-8
New Orleans                        8-8

NFC West
Seattle                                 13-3
Arizona                                9-7
LA Rams                              7-9
San Francisco                    3-13

AFC Championship: Oakland vs. Pittsburgh.
NFC Championship: Seattle vs. New York Giants

Touchdown Passes: Aaron Rodgers
Passing Yardage: Jameis Winston
Rushing Yardage: Le’Veon Bell
Rushing Touchdowns: Dalvin Cook
Receptions: Mike Evans
Receiving Yardage: Odell Beckham
Receiving Touchdowns: Odell Beckham
Sacks: Jadeveon Clowney
Interceptions: Marcus Peters
Tackles: Bobby Wagner

Total Offense: Pittsburgh
Total Defense: NY Giants
Rushing Offense: Oakland
Rushing Defense: NY Giants
Passing Offense: Pittsburgh
Passing Defense: 
Sacks: Kansas City