Hurt People Hurt People
There are so many hurt people running around here, and social media only gives them the outlet to express it further.
So someone (or several, which is when we begin to question your discernment and decision-making, and therefore you own culpability here) hurt you in the past? Guess what, we’re all human. You have done someone wrong, whether you realize it or not. That’s right. We all have, Mr./Mrs. Perfect. Get off your high horse and realize that you’re just one person away from having your skeletons revealed.
Nothing more annoying than to hear/read men calling all women hoes, slides, jumps and gold diggers just because he had a couple of bad experiences; even worse when he rules out an entire ethnic group of women because one member of that group did so.
Same with women running around constantly acting like that because they’ve been done wrong by one or two guys, that all men cheat. Do you not realize how disgusting you look in the eyes of both objective women and men who DON’T participate in such actions? You look sour, and your character is called into question.
You expect a clean slate from the next person that enters your life, whether romantically, or platonically. You are under compunction to do the same for new people in your life. This is the problem with people nowadays. They want all the benefits of the doubt, but never want to extend the same courtesy to others. You reap what you sow in this life. If you are constantly bitter, railing against members of the opposite sex, how then, in your warped estimation, are you EVER going to attract anyone positive?
Because God (and people such as myself) KNOWS that when we encounter such people, we turn and pull a U-Turn like someone coming up to that last exit in Fort Lee before having to pay that $13 toll on the George when we hear your bellyaching offline and read your rants online.