Counterproductivity in Action, Pt. II
You can’t throw shade at members of the opposite gender from behind a wall — only revealing your arm to hurl these unfounded taunts because you aren’t getting what you want — and expect someone of worth and value to come your way, when you want to be able to “love them” from behind a protective wall. Vulnerability is a necessity, not an option. Wisdom tells you to use discernment when you DO decide who to become vulnerable with.